I'm funny? I'm not the one saying that I have no word when it comes to love. You have a choice, you just don't know what it is. Either you fall in love with the guy, or you choose not to. How do you choose not to? Pretty easy, I'm not saying this out of ignorance, it's happened. I swear I was in love with someone who I knew I couldn't be with, because of issues I'm not going to say. I'll just say he has a bad reputation, but that's what I loved about him. As unfair as it was, my parents were the ones to declare that I couldn't see him. I forced myself out of love, and it happened. As painful as it was, I did it. Everyone has authority over whom they fall in love with, you just have to recognize it instead of blindly going for someone.