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Dragon Of Grief

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« on: November 03, 2005, 06:16:41 pm »
What is your view? Basically an open relationship means you and your mate go and experiment with other people while you are dating. I currently have a boyfriend and a girlfriend... Holly and John, and my girlfriend has a girlfriend... confusing, I know but bear with me. What is your opinion?
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jesusofsuburbia

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« Reply #1 on: November 03, 2005, 06:36:41 pm »
I've kind of tried it.

I say kind of because it wasn't exactly an "open relationship".

It was more like a long distance relationship, but we both agreed that it would be okay to see people in our cities.
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« Reply #2 on: November 03, 2005, 07:39:37 pm »
I've never had a girlfriend so I haven't thought of this.
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« Reply #3 on: November 03, 2005, 07:41:49 pm »
No, I honestly don't like it. I wouldn't do that with my boyfriend and I'd hope he wouldn't do that with me. It seems like it destroys the whole meaning of a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. But that's just me.
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« Reply #4 on: November 03, 2005, 07:42:12 pm »
Well, I've never dated before. But I have this feeling that a girl likes me alot and wants me to like her back.
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« Reply #5 on: November 03, 2005, 07:57:05 pm »
It seems to work for some people, and not for others. As long as you are and your partner are comfortable with it, it really isn't anyone else's buisness.
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« Reply #6 on: November 03, 2005, 09:07:28 pm »
If my boyfriend even suggested this to me, I'd dump him on the spot.  Hell will freeze over before I allow someone to be in the same position as me in his world.  That makes me second.  Selfish?  Maybe, but NO WAY will I stand for that.


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« Reply #7 on: November 04, 2005, 12:41:09 am »
I think it depends if you love your partner or not.  I really wouldn't be comfortable with it.   The way I see it, if a person loves someone they shouldn't WANT to be with anyone else at the same time.
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« Reply #8 on: November 04, 2005, 07:46:03 am »
nah, i wouldnt do that.  im real big on loyalty in the relationship.  i aint callin people that are willin to do that disloyal, but for me if i'm in a relationship with sumone, i give 'em my all.
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« Reply #9 on: November 04, 2005, 07:48:06 am »
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but for me if i'm in a relationship with sumone, i give 'em my all.
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I couldn't have put it any better myself.

Open relationships are dumb.  It seems to me that there's no real feelings there, since you're not devoted to one person.
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Dragon Of Grief

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« Reply #10 on: November 04, 2005, 12:53:24 pm »
Maybe you just like several people? It's really hard when you love several peoplle the same way... you can easily be devoted to more then one person. I see no problem with it. I love John and Holly equally, and they both know it.
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« Reply #11 on: November 04, 2005, 03:45:59 pm »
Not to step on toes here, but I agree strongly with Liz. No one would be allowed to share my boyfriend and no one else could have me, either. I always feel, if he wants to be with someone else...he shouldn't be dating me. Period.
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« Reply #12 on: November 05, 2005, 04:29:44 pm »
No way would I ever, EVER think about that. Its dumb, in my opinion of course. Why would I share the one I love?
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« Reply #13 on: November 06, 2005, 10:27:50 am »
To me there is no such thing as an Open Relationship; if you're with more than one person then you're not in a true relationship anyway.
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Dragon Of Grief

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« Reply #14 on: November 06, 2005, 10:51:40 am »
It does feel a little strange... I am probly gonna leave my girlfriend soon and stay with just John.
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