Ha, this happens everday. Spongebuddy, don't say you're depressed. That's more like an extremely long phase of sadness. You'll get over it. I've had the same problem. Yeah, I'm 13, and I could care less about having some girl in my life right now. I have to look into my education, not love. But before Alex (my old girlfriend) and I split, we fought nonstop, We we're a breakup waiting to happen. But at first, it seemed so right...but afterwords, it starting falling apart piece by piece. I think of relationships as Jigsaw Puzzles. You take your time to find out where all the pieces go, but then it always ends up falling apart, allowing you to redo the puzzle, kind of like a fresh start. Spongebuddy, don't fret. You'll be fine.