I know this is about my life, but i dont need to ask wich guy should I date or something like that. But i want to see what you would do in this situation or not, and what should I do.
haha its a bit different...but read
Ok my step family is all crazy. My stepdad sides with his mom about everything (stepgrandma). When I was in NC visiting relatives, she came too with some family. I stayed at my aunt and uncles house and apparntly she went up to both of them seprate times asking "I think Rachel is gay, what do you think?" And she went up to my aunts mother in aw who both hate each other and said that.
My uncle dosent let her control him like she controls my stepdad, and he said he wanted to slap her. He said im too young to be "gay" and that why would she say something like that, and so on.
My aunt was shocked as well saying "absolutley not, why would you say something like that?" and walked away from her. Her mom said that my step grandma is crazy and why on earth would you be so cruel to say things like that about a child, and she had worked with makeup artist and things like that and people and she said that i am definetly not gay.
So appartnly she is going around the family telling people this, and then she wants me to go spend time with ehr all the time after telling the family that i tried to get my stepdad thrown in jail(NOT TRUE) that i do drugs and stuff, and the fact that i spend time with ymbiological grandparents mroe than her gives her all the more reason to say how neglected she is and what a bad kid i am. She has to control everyones life and do what she wants other wise you are dead to her and she gets pissed.
What is your portray on this?
She wanted me to go to her house or something and go "play" or something and she came over the day after i learned what she said. I said i dunno and just tried to ignore her. I wanted to say "i think im to gay to play" so bad but faiguht the temptation.
Also on my birthday she gave me some books about how you should repsect your parents and a ;life book and crap, and in it it says how you should never give a gift that would hint of someone improving themsleves. Heh she must have not read that book
and she got mad that i would not stay with her that weekend and said "goodbye" and slammed the door. I hate her soooo much its not funny. She lies about me to the rest of the family.
How shoud I act around her? Should I confront her? Someone please help... I dont post topics about my life much....and i really need help..