All men are created equal. And I do treat other as I would have them do unto me. He also said, "Love the sinner, hate the sin." I care for people, gay or straight, it makes no difference to me. I don't care for sin of any type intermixing in marriage, and I'm not just talking about homosexuality...Straight people delving in any kind of sexual-immorality, those seeking personal gain through marriage, and any other person marrying for reasons other than love are no different and shouldn't marry either. That is my belief.
Oh and here's a thought, seeing as you obviously believe in separation of church and state. Instead of whining and throwing a hissy fit about gays not being able to marry, you instead push for your separation of church and state, and in doing so the governmental benefits of marriage are nullified and marriage becomes what it's supposed to be...A holy bonding of a man and woman together before God and nothing more. Those that don't want God to be apart of their joining can be joined through civil union or the like. Money and government should have no place in marriage.