I'd like to take a moment to point out what I *do* believe is evil, and that is selfishness. Selfishness to the point that people bring harm upon others because they put their own needs first. Nothing wrong with taking care of yourself mind you, just not at the expense of others.
I try my best to be open-minded, and as I mentioned before I'm in a committed relationship. I don't have a single doubt about my relationship with him, and the idea of him looking at porn doesn't bother me. Why? Because he and I both know it's just fantasy. . . it's not real. Of course, it would be a different story if he knew I didn't approve and looked at it behind my back regardless, but the same could be said if he sneaked off to the bar under the same circumstances or lied to my face about something. In this case, doesn't it all come down to trust and respect for your partner's wishes? So in reality it's not about the porn at all. I guess my point with this is that couples need to be open and communicate with each other. Porn is not the evil thing here, it just happens to be one of many possible catalysts that can feed off people's insecurities. If either you or your partner wants to look at porn (or anything else, for that matter) and the other doesn't approve, for heaven's sake, talk it over and figure out how important the issues are. When you come to an agreement, respect your partner's wishes. If you can't come to an agreement, reevaluate your priorities and where you are in life before you wonder where your life went.
I wonder what is considered so evil about graphic depictions (in the literal sense) of something completely natural. I, for one, absolutely adore the female form. No clue why. It doesn't necessarily turn me on, but I see nothing wrong with enjoying it through various forms of art and photography. I believe there's a clear difference between admiring the human figure and letting it dictate how you feel about a person. Does that make me shallow, or more importantly, does that make me evil? I certainly hope not. I mean, I'm not out to hurt anyone. I'm basically easy-going, great with kids, have done the occasional volunteer work, and I just happen to be in touch with my sexuality. And with that last part in mind, I do not force myself upon others, I do not sleep around, and I try my best not to judge others.
And as for the judgement thing, I hope we can all do the same here without any more flaming.