Well SS4 Gohan you did made some good examples there.
I mean all of my friends hate Nintendo, and I love Nintendo, but still they're my friends and they don't hate me for it. You REALLY need to welcome people no matter who they are. I mean that Sandy member may have something you both have in common, like you both like this show (SpongeBobSquarePants). I mean Spider-Boogie it's like your NOT welcoming this immigrant to America just because he/she is from another country. We all breathe the same air so you really DO need to welcome her.