ive had my step mother die (she sint really my step mother, she was my half sisters mother)...so actually, she kinda was, but we were close, she died of cancer, it was horrible, my sisters ex boyfriend died in a car crash 3 weeks ago, which was also upsetting. its really upsetting really, since my sisters boyfriend dying like that, ive become SO carfull wherever i drive now, not that i wasnt before, but now im especially carfull when i make my 5 hour drives to university, or anywhere really.